Social Interaction, Play and Self-independence Skills Developmental Milestones

AGE SOCIAL INTERACTION, PLAY AND SELF-INDEPENDENCE

4 months

  • Enjoys friendly handling
  • Smiles responsively
  • Plays with rattle

6 months

  • Starts mouthing toys
  • Bangs or shakes a rattle
  • Grasps feet
  • Stretches arms out to be carried

9 months

  • Stranger anxiety
  • Enjoys interactive routines (e.g., peek-a-boo, imitates hand clapping)
  • Waves bye-bye
  • Follow your point, “Oh look at . . .”
  • Holds small pieces of food with fingers and feeds self

12 months

  • Finds toys hidden from view
  • Shows objects to parent to share her interest

15 months

  • Enjoys casting/ throwing toys onto the floor
  • Spontaneously points at object to share her interest
  • Holds and drinks from cup, attempts to hold spoon

18 months

  • Plays contentedly alone but likes to be near familiar adult
  • Interested in watching other children play
  • Assists during dressing

2 years

  • Simple pretend play
  • Parallel play with other children (e.g., plays near them but may not join in)
  • Imitates housework (e.g., sweeping, wiping with a cloth)
  • Takes off clothes without buttons
  • Drinks from a cup and uses a spoon well
  • Toilet training: Start being dry by day

3 years

  • Able to join in play with other children
  • Starts to share
  • Puts on shoes, without laces
  • Eats independently

4 years

  • Play becomes increasingly imaginative (e.g., plays at dressing up)
  • Enjoys interactive group play
  • Understands turn-taking in play
  • Washes hands and brushes teeth independently
  • Goes to toilet independently

5 years

  • Plays games with friends that have simple rules
  • Cooperative with peers
  • Dresses independently